My boss and her husband: Who is the real father of my child?18-03-2012 00:03:07No way out (quyen. .. @ yahoo.com)Itself is also not her I know this child have children of my husband is not. Sometimes that is the result of my love affair with the boss does not?
Comments on the authorMad love your boss to forget myselfI was bored boss mode of sexual abuse and "scooped"Today some go to the Afamily mind, I found the buzz you're debating a hot topic is considered in the week: Foreign sex with boss, passion hard to stop. At first reading the author's article and read many comments of my readers to ignore. Because I also have fallen on even more tortuous story of the other authors. And now I was poignant, I was a despicable woman how her husband and his love child.
And the courage to write his heart out, I asked my people not to throw rocks violently.Because now, I myself did I realize how wrong he and I are paying the price because of the ignorance that lost most of his time here. I do and just want to regret, once spoken for and ready relief than offset all my future for my husband now.
25 years old I married my husband after 2 years now in love. When he was 4 years old than me and we are each other's first love. I am a beautiful girl, charming and do PR for a media company. But my husband at home on the motorcycle repair shop. In general the work of the two partners are temporarily stable. When you do not have children, we also have the food of to.


Our son wife should not leave wrapped tangerine together. Everyone told my wife happy.That right is my wife and I will most happiness if we have good news. Yet now after 2 years of marriage, after how many days of expectant children for fun fun house door, did not understand why I still can not get pregnant. Fear itself is the problem, I took the initiative to the hospital health examination. But I was relieved when my health is normal.Back home, I strongly encouraged her husband to the examinations. At first he was afraid but because the desire to have children and so was his wife's encouragement he should go. Doctors concluded his health is normal, there is even sperm quantity and quality are more powerful. But my husband and I are normal so that is why after 2 years of marriage, we still do not have good news mean?

When a marriage entered the 3rd year is the year two my wife and I started cracking because of the emotional stress of about 2 along with their children. And every time another depressed, are you sleeping in the store, and I sleep alone in the house. There are so bored today, I was trying to work late and spend the night in the company without letting anyone found out. But I was wrong, in my company still has a daily, hourly attention to movements of my post. That's the branch manager where I work. He is my boss and me nearly ten years more. The times to work with him, I have never had bad thoughts about him yet. Conversely I really admire the talent in management and operating his company. I also appreciate him because he is successful but the man still loves his family dearly.
A rare evening to sleep at work, when I walk past the boss room to the bathroom, I saw the boss room lights still on, is he the door shut. As a habit, I think your boss should not forget to power down the steps into the room and then shut off the lights. Unexpectedly, the boss is still sitting here working. My boss asked me not to help the family or anything but boring in the company. Wonder why the sky that day how bad that land, how much to reveal my feelings and share them all with you. When the end of my business mind, your boss is telling me about yourself. For then until now I know that, boss or wife married 10 years but have not had children. The reason is that her boss has problems.
And from that day onwards, with my boss not far way as before. In contrast our friendship together. Occasionally during business hours, we often share with one another chat, asking each other about everything. And ever since loving image began boss fills my mind, images of her husband also suffered hard my faded just started.Then what is to come, and my boss even tried to suppress any emotion, whether they tried to hide his heart, in the end we are also working together just like two moths.

My boss and so on throughout the nearly 2 years. Now we enlisted together in motels noon, meet at the rush hours. Once home, I was still a good kind of husband and wife.So my husband never suspected a little about me. Two years together in stealth, then after much struggle, we also decided to part. Because both our determination should not meet again, in our company are still good friends colleagues.


Nearly two months after breaking a sudden your boss know I believe I was pregnant. I consulted the new baby is almost 2 months old only. I am very glad and happy that I finally have a child. Especially my husband, he is always happy to tears. He said that in the folding kind, he finally looked up to heaven also his desire that his gift for a child.Seeing her husband in the men ecstatically happy and always dreamed of one day being a father that I see too anxious and confused. Frankly, I'm a mother myself that I would not know this child have children of my husband is not. Sometimes that is the result of my love affair with the boss does not? I wish at this time, I determine the baby's exactly who I am? Because if it was his second wife, I will bear it was born. What if my child with the boss, I would not have to face it life on earth. I'm very confused, please give me a most wise advice!

Painful death of 5-month-old boy was exorbitant18-03-2012 00:00:05 | PrintLe Hong Nhung; Photo: Ocean Winamp - TTVNWitnesses said the young mother had a knife pierced through the chest and cut his throat five-month-old child. Behind the shootings tragic case is a tragedy ...
On 16/03, the agency reported the incident five months old baby boy named Chu Dinh Hoang status on mortality in persons with multiple cuts, she is her mother Chu Thi Hue (b. 1982) hospitalized in a similar situation. This story and endless confusion in public opinion ... Reportedly, the police concluded the baby died from the knife from his mother (information on the Law and Life).
We found the village Thinh Yen, Son Da commune, Ba Vi - the residence of the victim's family to learn more about this tragic case.
Yen Thinh village to bury her after the ceremony has just ended Hoang Dinh Chu, grief and shock evident on the faces of the people here. Referring to this incident hurt, everyone laments the fate of her pitiful Chu Dinh Hoang less than 5 months old.According to the neighbor directly to the second mother in the hospital she Hue, the doctor confirmed the baby died from multiple stab on the stab.
LTS contact with her, a close neighbor to the victim's family and also the one who brought me directly Chu Chu Dinh Hoang Thi Hue and her to the emergency room, Ms. S. wiping tears, tells the heartbreaking story of her family Hue.
Ms. Chu Chu Thi Hue and Dinh Hiep he (born in 1978, her father Chu Dinh Hoang) were married for 3 years. Female infertility, the couple frequently by teachers, plus some, to pray you, ask me in many places ... After a miscarriage, joy to his family after 3 years she languished. In October 2011, she Chu Dinh Hoang was born in the happiness of the family is also at Chu Thi Hue she began to have symptoms of abnormal psychology.Royal at birth I never get a drop of his mother's milk, do not get the care, comforted by her mother from the Hui seem to be loss of awareness, often with symptoms of mental disorders business shortly after birth.
Ms. Hue still know you have a son, a husband, but do not behave like a mother, a wife that day just sitting on a seat, eyes lifeless, not talking, not doing something, sometimes screaming , smashing furniture. In the five months since her son was born, she was twice taken to the neck cord tightening his son but his parents may hear the cry of her Royal should have timely prevented. Her husband is a construction worker, often get no work at home so much, so just take her daughter did not just watch it again just as the foolish and cooking food in the house ... drinking water are poured onto the shoulders ofparents of 70-year-old husband. Daughter does not come close watch me going was that the habit has become her husband's parents Hue, but two unexpected detail heartbreaking story happens.
"Today's younger sister married Chu Tuyet Thi Hue is on 20 January, Hue suddenly enraged at himself told how many people are going to kill her children. Listen Hui said that, everyone is insecurity and fear "- she Chu Thi Xoan, her sister, Hui said. But no one suspected that not long after that speech, at 2 am last March 16, in the middle of the night, She has her son onto a large verandah, put their child in a large basket , using a 40cm long knife stabbed through the chest puffs her two Royal, and a deep cut on her neck. Hear the cry of the children squealed, he rushed Dinh Hiep Chu woke up, ran out the porch and saw the tragedy occurred. He hastily thrown into the arms tree to get his wife to drop the knife, they are people and they go to the emergency closing in critical condition, nearly died on the spot.

The husband Chu Dinh Hue - where the tragic incident.It has been two days, covering air miserable house. Her husband's parents suffering Hue,authorities have stopped weeping mulberry child has injured her child has mourned
Other than the information that the press has taken, as told by the sister S. who had picked her, she had no intention Hue suicide after a knife stabbed many times in his son. On the side she does not have any cut in the thigh, by her clothing was not torn then.On the road take me to emergency Huang, Hui also accompanied her. On the car, she continually demanding babies, people around you are sure that critical near death and life and death, she told what she also gave the closing, then folded his jacket posing as a child and then incubated closing the heart that knew nothing about terror caused by his own medium.
In part by superstition
Behind this tragic story emerged a problem that many people ponder startled. When the unborn child, she Hui who is a resourceful, gentle, widely loved in the village. "After birth, Hue became as person who had just met who I am not greeted as usual anymore, but stare at that person make them afraid. In the bath house, eating all by her sister Hui and mother care for, and wisdom seem to forget to take care of itself. "- Ms. S. laments recalled.
Many people ask why instead of growing daughter day after day, then her husband's family that I am not taking the time to treat mental illness for her after her show signs of the disease? Ms. S. Agreement and said he husband's family had repeatedly invited him Hue from many parts of the ceremony, exorcism, old ma ... at a cost of up to 20-30 million for medical treatment for the bride. After each ceremony he invited, the whole village anybody Thinh Yen suspense results, hoping that the chance for cure Hui in her laughing and she could care for your children.
But once the ceremony was over, her disease in remission, but I am not worse. Then, in time to find a different teacher, he advised residents Agreement is wife to the hospital to see how they treat new at the time he brought her to the hospital in Hue to visit Vinh Phuc. After tracking symptoms and neurologic examination, the doctor concluded Ms Hue is in a depressive syndrome after birth and therefore not treated in time led to postpartum psychosis. The doctors told her family to visit Hue and especially late depressive disorder is not cured within a day or two, to a combination of psychotherapy should take a long time to her new Hue can recover.
However, do not seem to believe in the long-term treatment in hospital, after a week of treatment in psychiatry, Harry led his wife home. Many people say that price as her husband brought her to visit Hue earlier or price persistence as Harry to his wife in hospital treatment, then perhaps the heart of the bitterness has not happened. Her biological father is Mr. Chu Dinh Hue Ngai also have a history of mental illness, he was cured in Quy Chau town hospital.
Explaining the reason why I am not her husband's family trust through medical treatment for her mental illness, a physician named in Rural TVA Yen Thinh said the family thought she was forces into spiritual rather do not believe she suffered from postpartum psychosis. Once invited by the master of ceremony, a teacher pointed straight at her face and screamed that Hue "You are a ghost, you go away." The husband believed it and still hope "chasing ghosts" away from his sister by three times as master of ceremonies as the teacher made an appointment. Do not know the method of "treatment" was effective but obviously not his actions that led many to doubt he is back to her condition worsened. The ceremony was not up to the second to "chasing ghosts," Mrs. Hue has caused the tragic incident.
Instead of healing in a scientific way, the Hui family and her husband still too believe in the superstitious remedies. And not only her husband's family in Hue, which many people in the village believe this Thinh Yen. Even, many people believe that you fall into the state Hue such as Hue because her family did not celebrate "pay me" after the ceremony "for children" in the last three years (!). Unfortunately, when the concept is still so ingrained in the minds of many people here, and in many other areas, perhaps this thinking still exists.
Syndrome, postpartum depression, can not be underestimated
No alarm about the psychological blind superstition of her husband's family as well as Chu Thi Hue of many people in Yen Thinh village that is also alarming case of a syndrome is considered a serious disease in women mother after birth - postnatal depression syndrome, is more severe psychosis after childbirth.

Hospital of Shanxi, where she Chu Thi Hue is in detention room of the Department of Psychiatry
During pregnancy, besides the pressure of infertility, the individual with a history of miscarriage and her husband, he Dinh Hiep Chu frequently away from home during her pregnancy is probably one of the causes made her depressive disorder after birth. At birth, Ms. Hui also difficult labor, caesarean sections should be somewhat affect the psychological and spiritual sister.
Besides, many people also said that the ceremony "for children", "would you" ... before the family also affects the psychology of her, makes her under pressure. It laments the plight of Hue when she not only was the joy when her child womb, not close to me forever, but now the children separated from their intestines laid off, when receivingrealize their own hands have killed me, she will be like?
Now you're in psychiatry Hospital of Shanxi, there are fears that perhaps her illness can never be cured ...

The Importance of Grieving After a Miscarriage

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It helps my heart to talk about mymiscarriage of Jubilee. I know it's difficult sometimes for people to really know what to say, and I know I felt that way at times in the past when I realized that someone had lost a baby that they were carrying and I wasn't sure how to best console them. But I think being able to acknowledge that there was a little one -- a precious life -- helps. It definitely helps me when someone will say that they're sorry to hear about our little Jubilee.

It does my heart good in that regard because we miss her, and I feel like she was such a joyful part of our lives for 18 weeks, and we were so looking forward to meeting her. And then all the sudden for us to realize that all of those dreams were not going to come true, it just really made us realize how precious and valuable life is and how short it is.

These last couple of months have just been very precious in the fact that I have been able to grieve over the loss of all those dreams that I was looking forward to, just hoping to getting to spend time with her. There's a song written by Selah called "I Will Carry You," and it is the most beautiful song expressing from a mother's heart the love and the sadness of losing a baby while you're expecting. At times I've played that song two or three times a day and just sing to the Lord and then just cry and release the tears that I need to let go of . Because I think if we hold the grief in it's not going to help us to overcome and move on. 

So I allow myself to cry and let it out, and it's been the same for my children. We were all getting ready for Jubilee; we had bought items like a baby walker and a little jumparoo because so much of our baby stuff had been worn out. And then to realize that it's not going to be used by her has been a hard reminder for everyone.

Sometimes one of the kids will come to me and they just need to let go of some of those emotions and they'll say, "Momma, I just need to talk to you" and I'll say, "I understand -- I understand what you're feeling and thinking."

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