Because a number of reasons, most newly married couples are facing problems in relationships with family wife husband and wife who are not satisfied with the husband's family ... To improve that relationship and make it become better, some following tips will help you make the husband's family always loved her.
A. Find out all through your husband
Find out in detail as possible about the husband's family members is the first thing you should do to improve your relationship so that a better place. You absorb the values and rules of the husband's family voluntarily and freely, be through her husband to find out more about hobbies / dislikes of everyone in the husband's family. Once the husband's family felt you really want to become a member of the family and understand the idea of you are sure they will welcome you most warmly.
Two. Keep open communication
The fact that you are "outsiders" and turned into the same house with her husband's family will have certain restrictions to help you live in harmony; be regarded as the blood, gut check. Because with them anyway, you are a novice and the lack of information and understanding between those of your husband's family makes the distance and difference. So to improve the relationship with her husband, you shake off the doubts, closer and talk to friendly, open to everyone in the husband's family. What will you do to show them that you are trying to adjust to be able to close and better suited to his new role, make sure that they will be highly appreciated.
3. Accept her husband's family
You will never alter myself liking or needs of a sudden someone. Similarly, you can not expect people to change to your liking you feel better. So you accept the husband's family with their inherent nature. Only such new adaptation and harmony with all people.
4. Be confident
Confidence makes all the difference in the elimination of all barriers separating those around you. So for those in the husband's family, you also should show confidence in what they are doing. You present yourself as a person can know exactly what the husband's family is doing. Only then your new show them to prove you're a clever woman, sure was and thoughtful.
Five. Stay calm
Do not for a little anger that made the comment, not evaluate or about those of her husband's family. Or if you have something warm memories, absolutely do not immediately run to the phone and tell the whole world hear your warm memories of her husband's people. When you hit the comments, or bad rumor about her husband loses his temper while, make sure both sides will be more biased, are inimical to each other.Therefore, if possible, so please be calm, everything will soon pass away and come back to where it.
6. Should not impose everything by personal opinion
You always remember that almost all the conflicts that arise due to opposition personalities, views ... of each individual. Thus in order to reconcile the relationship with the people in your husband's family should not impose everything in the opinion, review your own personal. Because either way are living in a common house and you need to listen to the opinions of everyone.
7. Be friendly and kind
When you want people around you love and respect you, then you first have to show to everyone that you are a person deserve that. So for those in the husband's family, if you really want them to always love you, you prove that you are a friendly, easy to close and good. Listen and respect what they say, respect the inherent value of life in husband's family.
To skillfully handle and calm is not easy for everyone. But because this is the problem related to your loved ones so it's worth to you should not hesitate but test immediately.
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